Last Call

Tall ships lined up like regal ducks in the Delaware outside the floor to ceiling windows of the Rusty Scupper. The lights from Penns Landing illuminated their bulky masts, casting cross-shaped shadows upon the concrete. It was nearly midnight. Two parties hung on for last call: a middle-aged couple who couldn’t keep their hands off each other, and two handsome guys who’d been downing gin and tonics for nearly two hours. Exhausted after a long shift, I looked forward to washing the smoke and liquor off my body and crawling into my bed a few blocks away.

Change of HeartJulia NusbaumDecember 29, 2021Sexual assult, #metoo, law school, feministComment

Dear Kaeli

Dear child,

It was never your fault.

When your mom left, you were a forgotten consequence, but never the cause. She chose drugs because of her own weakness, not your self-described inadequacies. You were a toddler who lived every moment with a full heart and a pocket full of hope, but she was too far gone to bask in that light.

Dear Past MeJulia NusbaumAugust 3, 2019#metoo, Survivor, Sexual assult, love letter, compassionComment

Don't

It’s a filthy place, the inside of his mind, but I’ve forced myself to wade through the sewage of his thoughts.

He followed me for a block, waiting until we were somewhere with less traffic.

I am cerebral person, I have to think about things, rationalize them, untangle them, for a long time after they happen. Even if it’s torture. Even if it’s pointless.

RageJulia NusbaumApril 25, 2019Anger, #metoo, Sexual assult, Feminism Comment

A Waitress' Tale

It never happened at Isaly’s ice cream joint, the first place I waitressed.

Well, waitressing is probably not the right word for what I did. It was more like order-taking, burger-flipping, shake-making, and plopping-on-the-counter-for-the-customer work. That demanding all-in-one food industry post that so many have as their first or second or forever job.

#metooJulia NusbaumFebruary 3, 2019#metoo, Sexual assult, sexism, ResiliencyComment

October Dark

It was almost three years ago when I went over to his house. He was a sophomore in college that already lived off campus and that was kind of cool. He was into anime and when I had been the desk manager at the dorm he had lived in the year before that was how we became friends. Kind of.

#metooJulia NusbaumFebruary 2, 2019#metoo, Sexual assult, survivor, healingComment

#MeToo

Childhood games, such as “boys catch the girls,” taught us how to behave and what to feel about ourselves. It taught us that we are not important unless we are pursued.

#metooJulia NusbaumFebruary 1, 2019#metoo, Sexual assult, survivorComment

Vocal Power

It trembles in my diaphragm.
The stretch and turn of muscle
guiding sound,

#metooJulia NusbaumJanuary 31, 2019#metoo, poetry Comment

Health Class Didn't Teach Me About Rape

It was over a year later that I realized what had happened. It may sound strange to you that I didn’t know it had. Wouldn’t you know if that kind of thing had happened to you? I wasn’t unconscious or inebriated. I remembered that evening, those moments in that room, but I didn’t realize it had happened. Because it wasn’t the kind of thing I was taught about in health class. Instead, I was taught about herpes and genital warts and obesity.

#metooJulia NusbaumJanuary 31, 2019#metoo, survivor, Sexual assultComment

Seventeen

Train station toilets and hospital rooms, especially bed seven, smell the same. Like chlorine and baking soda and coercion and cold. I’m seventeen and I wear my school uniform. No - she wears her school uniform, three layers of khaki and stockings. He wears a suit and carries an umbrella.

#metooJulia NusbaumJanuary 30, 2019#metoo, Survivor, Sexual assultComment

The Myth of the Nice Guy: And Why You Don't Owe Anyone Anything

Over a decade ago, I had a best guy friend with whom I shared a great deal of my life. He was the picture perfect, textbook “nice guy.” Unfortunately, as is common, when someone seems nearly too good to be true, they often are. This guy was my best friend. And I his. I had always suspected that he wanted more than my friendship, but I wasn’t interested in taking our relationship to that place. I thought this was something that he would respect. I was wrong.

#metooJulia NusbaumJanuary 29, 2019#metoo, Survivors, Self esteem, stalkerComment

Me Too

A body barely breathed
Inhale
A lizard lands
Exhale
His eyes give fire

#metooJulia NusbaumJanuary 28, 2019poetry, #metooComment

Choices

On an August day in 1988 I walked home from my summer job at the Farish Street YMCA. I was fifteen and a freshman in the Lanier High School band. Dressed in shorts and a t-shirt I moved along the sidewalk of Monument Street quick and unresponsive to the honking horns and catcalls from the fluid noon traffic. A man in torn blue jeans walked towards me with a brown bag in hand. He brought the bag to his lips then howled when he returned it to his side. He looked at me then said,” GOOD STUFF!”

#metooJulia NusbaumJanuary 28, 2019#metoo, Survivors, Sexual assultComment

A Love Letter to All the Advocates Who Have Had Enough

I still get pangs of guilt when I go by a hospital
and I remember the 3am, 7am, 11pm or Saturday 1pm calls
beckoning me to reach into myself and pull out some sort of aid for another person.
Reaching into the mess,

Women at WorkJulia NusbaumFebruary 1, 2018women at work, story, feminist, poetry, Mental Health, #metooComment

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