I didn’t grow up with a family that had much interest in extensive traveling. My mom says its because we’re farmers, and all we know is to stay in one place. She took me and my brother to Disneyland in California when I was in sixth grade, and we’ve talked about going to Ireland one day since it’s where our ancestors originated, but there just hasn’t been a good time so far. My dad’s side was a little more restless, but it was mostly repeated trips with my grandparents to Pigeon Forge or to a beach in Florida or South Carolina. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining; I’m extremely grateful for those trips and the time I got to spend with my family, but at the same time, I ached to experience something beyond the sand.

Traveling WomenJulia NusbaumNovember 18, 2015story, feminst, travel, adventure Comments

A Pilgrim’s Progress

I asked the question confidently, my tone disguising the butterflies already gathering in my stomach.

“Why don’t I go?” I said, letting my editor know I was ready for my first on-the-ground assignment.

Traveling WomenJulia NusbaumNovember 12, 2015feminst, tavel, adventure, storyComment

The Old Man and the Sea

It was a quaint little place, one room in the front of a house, lined with old shelves in chipping paint, books squeezed in wherever there was space. In the corner stood a tiny wooden table with a few flowers in a small vase, sitting atop a stack of novels and old Turkish newspapers.

Traveling WomenJulia NusbaumNovember 11, 2015feminst, travel, adventure, storyComment

The Quiet and the Chaos

I walked for an hour with no destination in mind. I stood atop the grassy dam that holds the sea back from flooding the small town of Den Helder, Holland. I was nearing the end of a two-month solo backpacking trip around Europe in 2010. I decided to go as far north as I could on the train and the train brought me to Den Helder.

Traveling WomenJulia NusbaumNovember 5, 2015travel, feminst, story, adventureComment

Woman versus Van

The phrase, “frozen with fear” keeps running through my brain, like those tickers on Wall Street. You know the ones, the red and green ones that tell all the stock brokers how much the economy is tanking? Those ones. Only this one, the one in my brain, is saying “frozen with fear.”

Over and over again.

Traveling WomenJulia NusbaumNovember 4, 2015travel, feminist, story, adventureComment

On Growing up Conservative and Female in the South

When I think about my life and the things that are most important I automatically want to begin with my family, especially my sisters and brothers. I am the oldest of four (now five) children and I feel that my place as the eldest child has had a great impact on my personality, causing me to be mature and well organized from a young age. Additionally, I attribute much of my maternal characteristics to the fact that I helped my mother with my siblings as a child. My mom’s reliance upon me for help made me feel older than I was, and important. I liked feeling needed and I liked knowing that she could depend on me. This responsibility for my siblings made me feel good about myself, and I think that much of my personality and self-worth is wrapped up in my status as the oldest child. However, this responsibility to care for my siblings was beyond my years and had negative effects on me as an adult, namely anger, anxiety and guilt. From an early age I rejected the Victorian model of marriage and gender dynamics that was presented to me.

Voices From the SouthJulia NusbaumOctober 29, 2015south, feminst, story, conservativeComment

Beyond the Picket Fence

What does an unmarried woman in her forties who has no children look like?

Let me guess the picture in your head: A woman sitting at home on a Saturday night, drowning in cats as she eats leftover Chinese food straight from the box and growls bitterly at the romantic comedy feature on cable.

Voices From the SouthJulia NusbaumOctober 8, 2015south, feminist, storyComment

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